psychology1A basic aspect of psychology is the question "what determines gender?".
In this essay i'm going to compare the explanation provided by the biological and the learning approach in relation to the nature - nurture debate.
Let's have a look at what the biological approach to psychology states in matters of gender development:
Firstly is important to mention that the biological explanation values scientific and measurable methods and states that our behaviour ,characteristics and personality are mostly influenced by our genetic make-up.
Adoptation and twin studies are used to help explain and show that this statement is valid.As every individual inherits 23 pairs of chromosomes from the parents,our appearance is due to 22 pairs of our genes,just one pair determines our gender.
In females is the final pair XX,while it's XY in males.
This is the case in most of us.But there are exceptions:
In the past occured cases of hermaphrodites ,who were born with both genitalia
insightwhen listening to that voice,
i recognise the strengths god granted humans.
the mercy he bestowed upon us.
the lives he gave us.
the wisdom lying within his decisions.
everything is a gift granted to make us succeed
now and later on.
the sunrise every morning,the sunset every late afternoon,
the smooth clear air,the ocean of clouds,
the diversity of lives and creatures,
the diversity of food,preventing us from boredom..
the beauty in nature,on earth,in universe and last but not least..in US.
the oceans of tangible,spiritual and ideational things around us:
we are aware of SOME,neglecting MANY,unaware of MOST..
we miss the obvious ,searching for other explanations
than the simplest and most logic one:GOD.
it's time to say 'thank you' what humans always were stingy with.
it's time to finally realize that not we gave and took ,but GOD.
a day in the life of a tomboywe never had foreigners in the village i used to live in.
but once,when i was 13,a middle-aged woman with dark
complexion moved into the house down the road,
where madame ricardi died last summer.
everyone gave her looks from the first day,although she never behaved much different than any normal human i've ever seen..
even my soo simple-minded family,which i thought would
be the most naive and innocent in the world couldn't help but stare at her,
when she rode past on her bike doing the morning route to the shops.
she used to dress in ordinary cloths,but had always a coloured piece
of cloth on her head.i never knew why and i never dared to talk to her and ask,especially since my parents were all of sudden quite hostile and forbad us kids to visit her as it was usual tradition,when someone strange came to our village.but as i mentioned before:we never had foreigners.
everyone lived in the house his grandgrandgrandfather built centuries ago..
one really hot dry summer day aro
much ado about nothingMr. shakespeare!
i'm seriously disappointed in you!
you promised me romeo,
but the only thing i got was prince-not-charming-at-all!
what did juliet get ,what i didn't?!!
i'm more pretty than her..and much more sensible!
i wouldn't ever stay with an idiot,
who is too stupid to come to my window
without setting the dogs on himself!!
just to kill my cousin the next day!!
unforgivably you made him so handsome that not only i melt away...
ohh,how i hate this juliet!
flatter than a pancake and gets prince charming!!!!!
she doesn't deserve him..she is ..she has..she..
i could complain about that inseparable couple forever
without changing anything or being different from any other girl on earth..
you are the Peace 2once you comprehend,
that you are powerless
without His help,
you appreciate that
peace starts in you
exceeding your limits,
going beyond them,
bringing light to people's days.
inspired by His light
you inspire others
to the only true and right.
you are the peaceEvery Blood Drop in my Veins calls your Name.
Every Beat of my Pulse is Repentance to You.
Every Tear I cried for You is Worship.
Every Step I made towards You brought me Miles closer.
You are the Love in my Heart.
The Air in my Lungs.
The Mercy in my Life.
The Light in my Day.
liebe ist..Liebe ist der Ozean,
dessen Wellen mich ertraenken,
dessen Stuerme mein Boot versenken.
Liebe ist der Wald,
den ich vor lauter Baeumen nicht sehe,
dessen stachelbesetzten Buesche ich entgehe.
Liebe ist die Kraft,
die die Erde rotieren laesst,
die Kraft ,die Schwerkraft aufhebt.
Liebe ist die Bereitschaft,
alles was man hat,nicht aufzugeben,
aber zu teilen,mit Allen,die man liebt.
for i love youdear God.my companion.my dear friend and saviour.
i feel lonely,full sins,ungrateful, and disobedient.
i know it's horrible to say that,
but i really feel left alone.
i hear how many people promise me to be there,
if i need them,but somehow..
i doubt.because they are humans,limited in their capacity.
i tried most of them in little situations,
they didn't keep their word..
i see the point in living ,
i see that it's the only thing i have
been given and can't give away.
my life is solely mine.the most amazing gift.
i recognize the interior strength,
which you blessed me with.
i am grateful for the soft heart,
which complements my mind.
despite of the grace i see and the need i feel
i'm still miles away from you.
and you are the most important.
please,be close to me,i need you.
i could survive even if i lost everyone i have,but you.
but i couldn't when i have soo many around me,but you.
i hear the never ending appeal
with every blood drop in me,i feel it.
your house is calling
sun of my lifethank you for all the sleepless nights,you spent by my bed.
thank you for all the sacrifices,you did for my sake.
thank you for not telling me off,when i hurt you most and made you upset.
thank you for every word you prayed for me in silence.
thank you for every time, you spent a thought reflecting about my wellbeing.
thank you for every worry you felt for me.
thank you for your protection and security.
thank you for how you raised me,saved me from tears,kept evil away.
thank you for listening to me,every time i wanted to share.
thank you for giving me all the beneficial advice.you always did your best.
thank you for the warm food on the table,ready for me.
regardless of whatever happened,you made my day.
when i come home,your beautiful smiling face with the big brown eyes greets me.
thank you for showing me the complete image of love in all it's goodness.
thank you for your simplicity and devotion.
thank you for all the little and big things,showing me that you care.