5 pillars in a poem with heartI lost myself in You.
In each and every Attribute.
Your Beauty is the Light of my Sight.
Your Grace encompassed my Heart
as Your Mercy encompassed everything.
So many Questions I would not dare to ask,
You answered me and more Requests
did I realise through You.
How do I dare to say 'I'
if 'I' could never be without 'You'?
The 'You' that is everything?
The Depth of Love I feel and the Devotion
to Your Majesty is unexpressible!
I wonder how they felt ,who were closest to You,
who enjoyed Your Company at all times.
And those, who sacrificed their Lives in Your Love.
Only a tiny Streem of the Ocean of my Love is theirs,
whose Names raise Tears in my Eyes and Pain in my Heart.
While the Rest is all Yours!
Forgive that I am not scared,
for the Love I feel fills my Soul
and no Space is left in me to suffer Fear.
In gleeful Anticipation I await
the Hour of mine to come
and nothing but Death is between Us ,
tomorrow is a dream awaymountains of clouds.
above my head.
ocean of hope and dream.
from you reaches me
only a tiny stream.
as i swim in your silent waves
i feel worries soo far.
my eyes are concealed
with the perfection of sight.
and slowly approaching is
the blue colour of fading light.
hope is eternalno one is born strong.
everyone is born weak.
and strength you only gain
through withstanding unpleasant trials.
time will darken the white of your heart
and hardship will strain your mind..
but love and trust are the secret arms
with which you keep
light brightening your path.
never loose faith
neither in God,
nor in humanity,
for God is the aim
and humanity is an ocean.
disappointed by one human,
delightened by another.
dont let yourself be let down.
a second chanceSo many ways still left to go.
So many words unspoken.
So many things still left to see.
So many questions not asked.
So many bridges still left to build.
So many hopes left dauntless.
So many dreams still left to conceive.
So many thoughts not dared.
So many experiences still left to make.
So many insights untaught.
So many times still left to laugh.
So many weaknesses unguarded.
So much pain still left to relieve.
So many humans not reached.
So much sorrow still left to diminish.
So many tears not cried.
hope in sightin a moment of weakness,
find the strength.
in the hardship of a trial,
see the goal.
if misery loves company,
recognise your friend.
if darkness sets in,
know the dawn of hope.
nightmarei lost the way.
i went astray.
i gave up.
all the nonsense
which guided me
from nowhere and
nowhere to go.
i fell into the endless trap
of chasing life.
of hounding it.
the disgusting game
of hide and seek.
but i'm not waking up.
this is life
not just a dream..
what am i supposed to do??
eine zweite chanceSo viele Wege noch zu gehen.
So viele Worte ungesagt.
So viele Dinge noch zu sehen.
So viele Fragen ungefragt.
So viele Bruecken noch zu schlagen.
So viele Hoffnungen unverzagt.
So viele Traeume noch zu tragen.
So viele Gedanken ungewagt.
So viele Erfahrungen noch zu machen.
So viele Erkenntnisse ungelehrt.
So viele Male noch zu lachen.
So viele Schwaechen unbewehrt.
So viele Schmerzen noch zu lindern.
So viele Menschen unerreicht.
So viele Leiden noch zu mindern.
So viele Traenen ungeweint.
Oh Vater,hoer'mich anEs tut mir Leid,
fuer was ich tat,
fuer was ich sagte.
Doch Reue allein
nimmt Worte nicht zurueck.
Darum bitte ich dich,
mir ein letztes Mal noch
die lastenschwere Suende zu verzeihen,
auf dass mein Gewissen Ruhe findet.
psychology2However turn the focus of attention to the explanation provided by the learning approach:
The main statement is that our behaviour is largely due to learning experiences and environmental (especially parental )influences (during primary socialisation)
neglecting the mental processes involved .
It is an attempt to be scientific and measure observable behaviours including human and non-human animals to investigate the mechanisms of behaviour acquisition by observing responses to given stimuli (see processes of operant and classical conditioning). Furthermore does it support clearly the nurture side of the debate.
This approach states that learning happens through association,consequences (trial and error,law of effect) and observation ,aswell as imitation and reinforcement.
From an early age our environment(first parents,then friends, teachers,then chefs)
teaches us directly or indirectly how to behave in a gender appropriate way.
We form associations between behaviour and gender